Friday, November 16, 2007

Let's Cry......

I hope you will agree on the point that women are more emotional and sensitive. Ever wondered why? If both men and women are the best creations of the almighty then how the emotional value system is totally opposite? I am not a genius or philosopher to discuss the rational behind that. I am sharing my views and trying a foolish attempt to understand the psychological behavior of men and women on LOVE, HATE and EMOTION


What I am going to tell will be clearer if you have observed women very closely. Just a flower is worth enough than a big lecture to your woman. You may not able to say something to your woman but you can give her a flower, or just at the way you look at her, the way you are charmed by her, the way your eyes have a glint is enough. Women are very understanding about that. In fact, if you talk too much, that is all junk. A woman doesn’t see what you are saying; she sees what you are feeling. That is one of the problems: the man thinks, “I am talking such beautiful things, I am being so loving, I am saying such great things,” and the woman is simply uninterested!



Sometimes you are silent and the woman understands. N the way you look at her, or you hold her hand, or just sit in simple silence where not a single word is uttered, something is communicated.

The woman is still intuitive and more natural than man, wilder than man; that’s her beauty. And that is the hope for humanity, that at least half of humanity is still wild, uncivilized. There is hope that the other half will also fall back into un-civilization, will become uncultured again.

The way of the heart is beautiful and dangerous. The way of the mind is ordinary but easy and safe. The man has chosen the safest and shortcut way of life while the woman has chosen the most beautiful, but the most mountainous, dangerous path of emotions, sentiments, moods.

This is, as per me, the primary reason why most of the times a woman feel the society is not fit for a woman to live in as the society is ruled by man and follows the constitution of reason and logic.

As far I am concerned, mind is a shortcut if we are going outward and exploring everything materialistic while heart is a very long way. But if we are going inward and trying to understand ourselves, heart is the shortest. And mind is the longest way you can think of.

We are leaving in a wrong trained euphoria. Man has been trained to be strong, to be manly, and all this is nonsense (you are free to differ). No man cries and lets his sadness or joy flow through his tears because he has been told since he was a child that tears are for women, it is girlish. Men never cry and weep.

But then what are tears for? Is it just a salty fluid created by mistake? No, like we feel cool after sweating, we can feel calm after crying. But we are ashamed. Tear is a language gifted along with smile by God. Languages communicate our learning experience to the world. Similarly when we experience very high sorrow or happiness, that experience starts overflowing through tears. You may be so sad that words fail to express what you feel but 10 ml. of salty tear will explain. Simple na?

That’s the main reason why women get less mad as compared to men. Men believe in whole selling, they accumulate the pain and explode in a big way. But women prefer retail business, everyday they purchase some happiness and laugh and loose some sentiments and cry.




So my dear friends, if you are a man pls practise to CRY and if you are a WOMAN please tell your dear ones(Men) to cry.......ha ha..... how pessimistic.






(Inspired by one writing / speech …I forgot. But basic thanks to him / her)


5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Heay Sakti...

you have a great understanding about women feelings and I really appreciate and admire you...

-Deepa

Saktishree said...

Thanks Deepa.....Its a privilege to get an appreciation from you....

dips said...

lage raho.good work. well i have got doubts. is it u or someone else ho is writing this for u.ha ha ha ha........

Pulak said...

must have gone through a womans heart to know their pathos looking forward to see stories on thier life

smaranika priyadarshini said...

Marvelous description..A big hand for you.
& a healthy suggestion too.. :)
So how often U r applying Ur suggestions on U? ;)