Netflix’s Adolescence: not just a must-watch—it is a cultural moment that demands reflection

Netflix’s limited series “Adolescence” is a bold and deeply moving exploration of the complex realities facing today’s youth, with a sharp focus on the dangers of online radicalization and its influence on adolescent behaviour. Directed by Philip Barantini, this four-part drama takes viewers on an intimate and tragic family journey, brought to life through exceptional performances and an innovative approach to storytelling.

At the heart of the narrative is 13-year-old Jamie Miller, portrayed with stunning authenticity by newcomer Owen Cooper. Accused of murdering his classmate Katie Leonard, Jamie becomes a chilling embodiment of how the internet's darker forces can entangle and manipulate vulnerable minds. Cooper’s debut is nothing short of extraordinary—he delivers a layered, emotionally charged performance that feels raw and real. Opposite him, Stephen Graham—who also co-created the series—plays Jamie’s father, Eddie Miller. Graham’s portrayal is deeply affecting, capturing the anguish of a parent confronting the unthinkable. One particular moment stands out: in the series’ final episode, his silent act of placing a teddy bear on his son’s bed is heartbreakingly tender, a frame that lingers long after the screen fades to black.

Barantini’s choice to film each episode in a single continuous shot is not just a technical feat—it’s a narrative device that immerses the viewer completely in the unfolding drama. The seamless execution of this method heightens the emotional intensity, making us feel like silent witnesses to the characters’ unravelling lives. It’s a testament to the director’s vision and the cast’s cohesion that these long takes feel effortless rather than performative.

I must commend the creators for their fearless engagement with challenging themes—particularly toxic masculinity, cyberbullying, and the unsettling rise of “incel culture.” For clarity, the term refers to a subculture of disenfranchised individuals, often young men, who identify as “involuntary celibates” and harbour deep-seated resentment—often manifesting as misogyny—toward women. The 2014 Isla Vista shootings by Elliot Rodger remain a disturbing example of this phenomenon. His manifesto, My Twisted World, outlined a worldview steeped in entitlement and hatred, sparking global awareness of the threats posed by such ideologies. “Adolescence” doesn't shy away from this darkness—instead, it confronts it head-on, offering viewers not just a drama, but a wake-up call.

“Adolescence” has already sparked essential conversations in the UK, with growing calls for the series to be used in educational settings to raise awareness about online radicalization. And rightly so.

In sum, “Adolescence” is a masterfully constructed work—gripping, thought-provoking, and profoundly moving. With standout performances from Owen Cooper and Stephen Graham, and a narrative that courageously delves into some of the most pressing issues of our time, it is not just a must-watch—it is a cultural moment that demands reflection. 

Parenting tips: its ok if your kid is not the best at everything

As a parent, one of the hardest things is seeing your child struggle. Whether they are struggling in school, with friends, or with something they are passionate about, it can be tough to watch.

One of the struggles I have faced as a parent is with my kids in play school. It can be hard to see them not succeeding in something or not being the best at something.

As a parent, you want to see your child excel and be the best they can be. It is important to remember, though, that not every child is going to be the best at everything. They will have their own unique talents and abilities. And that is okay!

It is also important to remember that struggles are a part of life. They help us grow and learn. If we never struggled, we would never know how strong we are.

So, if your child is struggling in play school, try to be supportive. Encourage them to keep trying and remind them that everyone struggles at times. Help them to see that their struggles are not a bad thing, but a chance to learn and grow.

Note: My three and half year son is in play school. The above is a piece from my own experience.

Parenting Tips: What to do when your child is struggling

As a parent, one of the biggest struggles is watching your children suffer in school. Whether it’s due to bullying, bad grades, or social anxiety, it’s hard to see your kid go through tough times.

One of the best things you can do as a parent is there for your child, no matter what. Show them that you love them and support them, even when they’re struggling. Help them to find ways to cope with their struggles, whether it’s through talking to a counselor or joining a club or sport. It’s also important to encourage your child to keep trying, even when things are tough. remind them that everyone goes through tough times and that they can overcome anything if they just keep trying. Finally, be there to celebrate your child’s successes, no matter how small. This will help them to feel good about themselves and remind them that they’re capable of great things.

Note: My three and half year son is in play school. The above is a piece from my own experience.

Five tips for parents with kids in playschool

It's not easy being a parent, especially when your kids are in play school. You have to juggle your own work and home life with taking care of your kids and making sure they're getting the best education possible. It can be a real struggle trying to balance everything, but it's important to remember that your kids are your top priority.

 

Here are some tips to help you manage the struggles of being a parent with kids in play school:

1. Create a schedule and stick to it. This will help you stay organized and make sure that you're giving your kids the attention they need.

2. Communicate with your partner. It's important to have a good support system when you're a parent. Talk to your partner about your struggles and work together to find solutions.

3. Seek out help from friends and family. Don't be afraid to ask for help when you need it. Whether it's watching your kids for a few hours or just lending an ear, your loved ones can be a great source of support.

4. Take some time for yourself. It's important to take care of yourself both physically and mentally. Make sure to schedule some time each week to do something that you enjoy.

5. Seek professional help if needed. If you're struggling to cope with the challenges of parenting, don't hesitate to reach out to a professional for help.

 

 

Note: My three- and half-year son is in play school. The above is a piece from my own experience.

Parenting Tips: How to choose a school for your kid?

As a parent, one of the biggest struggles is finding the right play school for their kids. With so many options available, it can be hard to know which one is the best fit. There are a few things to consider when choosing a play school, such as the educational philosophy, the facilities, and the staff.

• The educational philosophy is important to consider because it will impact the way your child learns. If you want your child to be in a more traditional learning environment, then you should look for a play school that follows that philosophy. However, if you are open to a more creative and progressive approach, then you can look for a school that follows that philosophy.

• The facilities of the play school are also important to consider. You want to make sure that the school has adequate space for the children to play and that the facilities are clean and safe.

• The staff of the play school is also important to consider. You want to make sure that the staff is experienced and that they are good at working with children. You also want to make sure that the staff is supportive and that they are willing to help you with any concerns that you may have.

Note: My three and half year son is in play school. The above is a piece from my own experience.

...then you are alive

if you have eagerness in your heart, 
then you are alive.

If your eyes are filled with dreams,
then you are alive.

Learn to be free like the wind.
Learn to flow freely like the river.
Embrace every moments with open arms.
See a new horizon every time with your eyes.

If you carry surprises in your eyes,
then you are alive.

if you have eagerness in your heart, 
then you are alive.

Disclaimer: Inspired/translated version. Not Original. 

Nabakalebara-Eid-Rathajatra: A divine intervention

June 18, 2015, 'Nabakalebara-Rathajatra-Eid' on one day: Is it just a coincidence, or a wake up call for the ignorant we. You decide, who am I ?

We, the arrogant so called knowledgeable people debarred 'Salabega'' in the past to meet Jagannath, he came out and and made everything stand still for the devotee without cast/race. The outcome - "We learnt Nothing"

Its still the same and we still restrict the almighty and argue to put him in the Hindu clad and insult his very name 'Jagata ra Natha (God of the World) - Jagannath'. We are testing his patience or the almighty has still faith on his beautiful (?) creation - only he knows, who am I ?

Nabakalebara - The almighty is willingly waking us up to see the reality, the truth, - nothing is constant. Everything has an end, but the Brahma (divine soul). Soul, that neither starts nor ends, neither a Hindu nor a Muslim or anything...what we are learning?- You better know, who am I ?

Eid: An occasions for showing gratitude to God and remembering Him after month long daytime fast. What we are doing, you better know, who am I?

Rathajatra - The very meaning (as I think) is the irresistible force of the almighty that crushes all ignorance on the way to make us reach the final destination. What we are doing, you better know, who am I?

Still, he has not lost his faith on us, and meticulously arranged the planetary motion to make us realize God is one. Nabakalebara-Eid-Rathajatra are the same with varied interpretation and its time to know the truth and embrace all. Is it a deliberate attempt to send us one more symbol, he only knows, who am I?

Dear almighty Jagannath, Wish you a very Happy Eid.



Note: Nabakalebara is a Hindu ritual performed at Jagannath temple, Odisha, India that symbolizes life is a circle of event, death is inevitable if there is life and vice-versa.